
At first, it's hard to find any plus side to becoming separated, never mind thinking ahead to plan a future, but at some point, realisation dawns that there are certain things that you are not missing at all, and are much better off as a result.
1) You’re no longer walking on egg shells.
2) You love getting home to a calm environment.
3) You don’t have to ‘report’ to anyone on where you’re going, who you’re going with, what time you’ll be home etc.
4) Your free time is entirely your own. You no longer have to consider what your other half wants to do.
5) No more judgemental in-laws.
6) Having alone time without the kids begins to have it’s perks
7) The wardrobe is all yours!
8) You realise that you’re both good people – just not good for each other.
9) You get to know yourself better than ever before.
10) You begin to love yourself more than ever before.